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P.S.
89 Students Learn a Lesson in Giving
by Carl Glassman
Like millions of other children, 5-year-old Mathew Shiferaw could hardly
wait to open his presents on Christmas morning. He rose before dawn and
thrilled to the gifts beneath the tree.
"He was so happy I videotaped it," said his mother, Hiruth.
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But unlike most kids' gifts, the presents that Mathew unwrapped-a
Big Wheel, a football and baseball glove-did not come from anyone
he knew. They came from the fifth graders at P.S. 89.

Mathew and 39 other children-most underprivileged and many of them
the victims of neglect-had a merrier Christmas last month because
the P.S. 89 students and the school's staff raised $2,500 to pay
for the gifts.
"Everything sparkled and shined," said Jill Pedersen,
a social worker at the Edwin Gould Services for Children, where
Dear Santa letters were solicited from young clients. "You
knew kids were going to get a special Christmas."
Indeed, the P.S. 89 students made sure that every child got everything
on his or her list.
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The most expensive presents-three children got bikes-were paid for
out of the pockets of school staff members, including Principal Ronnie
Najjar. But most of the money came from a holiday café, where
kids sold drinks, baked goods, handmade holiday cards and bracelets.
They solicited money from their families and made their own fliers.
"With just two weeks notice they threw this thing together and
they did so well," said Colleen Holman, a speech and language
therapist at the school who volunteers for New York Cares. Holman
started it all by bringing a few of the children's letters from the
agency to school and asking other teachers if they would like to be
secret Santas.
Najjar immediately saw an opportunity for students to learn about
giving. "She took the ball and ran with it," said Holman.
For children who are "afforded a lot," Najjar said, "this
really is a time to do something that's meaningful, to take the opportunity
to think about people other than themselves."
The fifth graders not only got the chance to give, they also learned
something about the children who would receive. In class, letters
from the kids were put on an overhead projector and, as Najjar put
it, "we talked a little about domestic violence, about why children
go into temporary housing and, without revealing too much, we discussed
who the child was and why she might be asking for that kind of present."
"My mom is in prison and we visit her every month," a letter
from a 12-year-old girl stated. "I love my mother and my two
sisters. I am behaving good at school and at home. I would like to
get a boom box or a CD player."
"For Christmas I would like to have new clothes," an 11-year-old
girl requested. "
I did not get new clothes for school."
Each P.S. 89 fifth-grader had his or her own job, and for some it
was joining the holiday crowds and buying the presents. Adults who
accompanied them said it was gratifying to see boys trying to choose
between a blond or brunette Barbie, or standing in line to pay for
a little boy's pajamas.
Generosity, as it turned out, came naturally.
"I feel good that we're giving instead of taking away,"
said Philip Lombardo after loading gifts into a car for delivery to
the agency. "I like giving stuff to people who need it."
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